Parenting a Preteen: Making Memories While We Can

How quickly time flies, but Sundays will always be a family day. My husband and I continue to spend quality time with our son, who’s on the brink of becoming a teenager. This Sunday, we goofed around, laughed until our sides hurt, talked about future plans, and made memories that I hope will stay with us for years. 


As a parent, I often think about how these moments may not last forever. Soon, our son might prefer the company of his friends over family time. While that’s a natural part of growing up, it does make me cherish these moments even more.

In today’s busy world, it’s easy to get lost in the hustle and forget to make time for what truly matters. We usually don't anything extravagant—no big vacations or fancy events—just a simple day filled with laughter and love... and food.

I feel that these ordinary moments often turn out to be the most meaningful. Spending time together as a family is important, especially as our kids grow older and their lives get busier with school, activities, and friends.

I already accepted the fact that the days when my son wants to hang out with us may be limited. Eventually, he'll grow up and start his own adventures. But until that day comes, I’m committed to making the most of the time we have together. 

Every weekend, every laugh, and every shared experience is a gift, and I intend to cherish each one.

These moments, though small, are the threads that weave together the fabric of our family’s story. They create a strong bond that would help our kid feel secure as he grows up.

Remember: It’s about being present, being flexible, and savoring each moment as it comes.

Maria Franco

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